The other day a colleague of mine confessed that she was against gay marriage. I was kind of stunned. Which very likely makes me naïve. I had assumed that in this day and age we were all pretty tolerant, and had moved on to bigger (actual) problems. I get that my 90-year-old grandpa might still … Continue reading The fine line between judging, and having an opinion
Author: KaraF
If it’s alright with you, I’d rather not procreate…
When I met a new colleague at work the other day, he asked me the two questions I dread the most: if I was married, and if I had kids. As a woman in her early 30s, when I answer “no” to both of those questions, I’m usually met with a look of confusion, disappointment, … Continue reading If it’s alright with you, I’d rather not procreate…
Accepting That You Have To Take Care of Yourself Sometimes (Because Other People Might Let You Down…)
I’ve done therapy off and on for a few years now, hoping to self-improve and learn some better coping mechanisms. Sometimes, I honestly didn’t feel like I was getting much bang for my buck in my steeply-priced sessions. But over the years I’ve still accumulated a few gems of wisdom, that I feel the need … Continue reading Accepting That You Have To Take Care of Yourself Sometimes (Because Other People Might Let You Down…)
Why I think there might be a window for marriage, and why I think I’ve possibly missed mine.
Before anyone gears up to tear me a new one, you should understand that when I refer to a “window”, I am in no way referring to a person’s age. I don’t care if you get married at 25 or 65 (or maybe marriage isn’t your thing – that’s cool too!). But I’m starting to … Continue reading Why I think there might be a window for marriage, and why I think I’ve possibly missed mine.
Mistakes I made in my 20s…
I should try and avoid using words like “mistakes” or “regret”. I mean really, I don’t have a crystal ball, so who am I to say how things would have turned out, had I made different choices or acted differently in life. If the decisions I made, mistake or otherwise, got me to where I … Continue reading Mistakes I made in my 20s…
I just realized that I am modestly vain…
If you saw me walking down the street you wouldn’t think that I am a vain person. You’d probably actually suggest that I put a little more effort into my appearance. I go out in public without makeup, I frequently get comments on my messy hair, and my friends once staged a borderline intervention to … Continue reading I just realized that I am modestly vain…
Why I eat lunch in my car – and why I am not ashamed!
Well…that’s a lie. I am a bit ashamed. But the point is that I am really trying not to be. And here’s why. I think the image of me eating lunch alone in my car is somehow reminiscent of the stereotypical loner teenager who has no one to sit with in the cafeteria. But believe … Continue reading Why I eat lunch in my car – and why I am not ashamed!
It’s been years since my dad died…and I still wish I had handled it differently.
I was on the cusp of my 30th birthday when I lost my dad. Amidst all the chaos of grief, and some of the typical challenges people experience, I found that my age made me feel almost uncertain of how I was “supposed” to behave (I’ve unfortunately always cared way too much about what other … Continue reading It’s been years since my dad died…and I still wish I had handled it differently.
3 of the biggest misconceptions about vegetarians
An obvious disclaimer here is that I can’t speak for all vegetarians as a whole. But it’s been well over 5 years since I’ve ditched meat, and noticed a few things people commonly assume about me. The following are only a handful of the most problematic ones: 1) You assume I’m some sort of self-righteous … Continue reading 3 of the biggest misconceptions about vegetarians
